‘Chef’ and ‘cook’ are incorrectly used as synonyms. Cooks excel when they can implement recipes created by others, perhaps with their own added flare.
Chefs invent recipes. They use first principles as ingredients, and achieve outcomes using creative means, sometimes constructing something never seen before.
Copy or create? Conventional wisdom or new design? Neither is superior. There is a wise place for each. Food is just a metaphor here. It’s valuable to reflect on whether you’re operating as one or the other in each important area of your life.
It’s funny how we say ‘I am angry’ but no one would think to say ‘I am a broken arm.’ We know that we are not equal to our emotions, we only experience them (for a much shorter time than an injury). Just because you feel, think, or even say something out loud, doesn’t mean it has to define you forever.
You are not your thoughts.
An important distinction of mindfulness is remembering that you don’t have to believe everything you think.
We live in a time where there are fewer gatekeepers. If you want to be an artist, an actor, a business person, a singer…you don’t have to wait for the studios, agents, TV stations, or record labels to “discover” you.
People who claim they’re working for their “piece of the pie” don’t understand that we live in the world’s most amazing kitchen. You can make your own pie.
You no longer need permission. You don’t need to wait to be picked. Choose yourself.