Why write or journal

Writing exposes unclear thinking and helps us organize our most sincere beliefs.

Although everything I’ve written has likely been said before,  occasionally, my words resonate with people in a positive, life-changing way.

Whether you write/journal for yourself or others, knowing there is a high potential for intrinsic self-motivation is helpful. And as a bonus, we may provide inspiration for others.

“Shoulds” and “Musts”

We all have a list of things we tell ourselves we “should” do.  The thing is, what we should do never happens.  What we do are the things we “must” do.

Willpower is short-lived and over-rated.  Intrinsic motivation driven by the desire to grow is not.

If you find you’re continually telling yourself that you should do something, either change it to a “must” or stop talking about it.

Attracting what you want to attract

If you believe in the so-called Law of Attraction, then you believe that you attract whatever your dominant thoughts are.  This is difficult since we don’t consciously know our dominant thoughts. They happen below the level of conscious thought.

The first step in attracting the desired things, people, and events in our lives is taking inventory of invisible scripts. Things like: “I’m not worthy of…,” “I’m not very good at…” and turning them into scripts that serve you, like: “I deserve to be happy,” and “I learn quickly.”

Changing our dialogue is difficult when our energy is focused on what’s wrong. Life improves when we focus on, believe in, and conjure up the way we want to “feel” when the improvement is made. The same law works against us when we focus on and feel the thing(s) we’re unhappy about.

Recipe for improving competitive skills

Once you know the fundamentals of a sport or craft, you’ll need competitive partners in 3 categories: those that are better than you, those that challenge you, and those you’re better than.

You’ll be forced to up your game and constantly strive by training with better people than you. You’ll reinforce your skill set by challenging yourself with those at your level. And you’ll be able to teach those you’re better than. And teaching reinforces your learning more than anything else.